Tuesday 29 November 2022

The Doppelganger

 

The Doppelganger – by Yasmin Thattil

The elderly lady looked around her with a sigh. The departure lounge was almost packed to full capacity. The slight delay had made everyone a tad restless. Most were, as usual, busy pecking away at their cell phones. Kids, teens, tweens, middle-aged people, senior citizens and even some of the super-seniors (she chuckled as she thought of this phrase!) in her 80+ category were glued to their various devices. Some of the advantages of being in the super-senior category included priority boarding and a place to sit, no matter how crowded it got.

As always she found herself looking out closely for a certain build, a certain warm chocolate complexion. Over the decades she had found hundreds of people with some similarities. Some had, at times, an air of resemblance from afar but a closer look shattered the idea. Others were quite familiar … but there ought to be more resemblance. Much much more. That was, after all, who a doppelganger was!!

She wondered whether he would ever come. She didn’t have much time left. Another few years at the most. She was as prepared now as she would ever be. She had had a good life. A good marriage. A loving husband and an affectionate son who was still her baby, despite being the proud father of two lovely girls. And yet, even as the end drew nearer, she could not stop looking for him.

At times she wondered how he’d have looked at this age. Bald as an egg for sure!! One thing she was sure of – he’d still be able to make her laugh with his jokes and comments. Despite all the wrinkles and marks on her aged skin, she knew that he’d still have been able to make her blush like the 17 year old she had once been.

How long had it been, she wondered, since she had been 17? Trying to count back to the day she had first met him she smiled at the memory that was still so fresh. Every time she looked at pictures of her school she saw past the many additions and subtractions the years had wrought on the campus. Always she saw, in her mind’s eyes, the huge canopies of the raintrees beneath which they had first smiled and said hello. The trees were all long gone, now replaced by newer younger trees. But just looking at the area where they had once grown brought a smile on her face, across all the decades and space that now separated her from her 17 year old self.

Mmmmm … she wondered what that fragrance was, as someone sat down behind her. She had always preferred masculine fragrances to the more feminine ones her husband had loved to lavish on her. All she had to do was close her eyes and he would be there before her, his fragrance enveloping her tight, as tight as his arms had ached to hold her. The familiar tears welled up in her eyes and brought with them the deluge of familiar questions that had haunted her down the decades. Why? Why hadn’t they been meant for each other? Why had the love still remained when all else had been swept away, dried petals that swirled away on the wind? Why did he have to give up?

She sniffled into her handkerchief. Thankfully super-seniors were often plagued by watery eyes and no one would take it amiss if she sniffled a bit. It was then that she noticed a young man in a leather jacket, sitting almost diagonally opposite her. Her breath caught and she looked away. No! It just couldn’t be. Fate was no doubt playing its familiar cruel trick on her. He most definitely had been one of a kind. And yet, the lure of looking at some feature that would remind her of one of his features, seen so so long ago, was too much to ignore. She looked again. And then again….

 

Wednesday 12 June 2019

Over the Clouds ...







            There! High up over the cottony clouds in a blue blue sky a tiny plane was winging its way to some faraway place. And she was stuck in class!! It just wasn’t fair. Not fair that she had to sit in on this glorious summer’s day and try to cram in concepts that she would later be tested on. It wasn’t fair that since she was brilliant she was expected to ace all her exams. It wasn’t fair that her dream of being one of the best models in the world was scoffed at by everyone simply because she was academically inclined to be a topper. It wasn’t fair that her mom allowed her to take up modelling assignments on condition that her grades remained in the stratosphere. It wasn’t fair that her dad ….  No, she wasn’t going there! She blinked back the tears that filled her eyes and forced herself to concentrate on the lessons. That was the way to keep from going down that path.

            He was there. Right next to her. He saw the curls that had never failed to delight him. Was that a wayward breeze playing with the tendrils of hair that had escaped the confines of her hair clips? Those lovely perfectly shaped ears that were so attuned to the slightest sounds that promised distraction the second she sat with her schoolwork. Her perfect nose that was, in his opinion, every bit as horrible a nose as her father’s. Her eyes were huge, sink-into-me pools of her favourite Nutella. He was the only one who caught the sudden glint of tears in her eyes before she blinked them away furiously and returned her concentration to the day’s lesson on plateaus and mountains. He knew why those tears had come. How could he not when he was the reason they were there in her eyes? He knew that they were always there, simmering beneath the surface, waiting for an unguarded moment to spill forth. He also knew the effort it took her to keep them in check, the effort it took her to carry on from day to day as though nothing had happened.

            He looked around. He saw her class, her classmates, her teacher droning on and on and on. God!! How he hated Geography! He saw her lithe artist’s fingers start drumming a tune as she took one last look out of the window at that faraway plane, winging its way across the blue sky. He kissed her. Engrossed or not in Geography, all she felt was a feather-light caress on her cheek. She never even paused to think of how any breeze, wayward or not, could have made its way into the airconditioned classroom she sat in. “I’ll be back in a jiffy”, he whispered and then took off, out into the bright blue sky towards that little plane making its way a thousand miles above.

            She was there, as he knew she’d be. Tired after the early morning flight and the subsequent changeover, she was now sitting at the window beside her teenaged son. Her son, engrossed in some kungfu movie or the other, resembled her so much that it brought a smile to his lips. She gazed out over the miles and miles of cottony clouds that blanketed the view outside. Silent tears coursed down her cheeks. Again, he knew he was the reason for those tears in her eyes. He loved her eyes. He looked into them and once more found himself drowning in their brownness. “I love you baby and I’m sorry. I know that you are the only one who will understand me and forgive me and still love me the same.” “I hate you”, she thought. “I hate you for giving up so easily. For not fighting for what you loved so much. Twice. First me and then Kathy.” She remembered a whatsapp message she had once sent him – Be fearless in the pursuit of what sets your soul on fire.

After all these years and all that had happened in them no one had set her soul afire the way he had, with that shy lopsided smile of his. Was it only yesterday that they had met on that warm and sunny winter afternoon? As always a million memories swamped her mind, filled her eyes with more tears and brought a smile to her face … going to watch him play a basketball match that he had arranged just so they could meet up … their first date which was the slowest fifteen minutes of their lives … the first movie they watched with eleven other friends just so she wouldn’t feel shy watching DDLJ with him. Those brief moments together had held more love and passion and understanding than what most found in an entire lifetime. Over the decades it had remained like a suddenly discovered coin, resplendent still in its newly minted shininess. She continually marvelled at their love for each other. It had withstood the passage into tweenage, jobs abroad, marriages (one a failure the other a success), much awaited parenthood and finally even death.

She smiled through her tears and dabbed at her eyes. He smiled seeing her smile. To him it was as beautiful and magical as the rainbow after a heavy shower. He hoped with all his heart that she would never forget what she meant to him. He knew she knew why he had done what he did and why, even after death, he couldn’t be by her side. He kissed her once more, ruffled her son’s head (his boy, he had always called him) and went off, borne on a sunbeam that pierced through the blue blue sky. He was back in the classroom where that boring geography class was finally coming to an end and filled his eyes with the sight of Kathy, his baby. Why did she have to grow up so fast? His Kathy, the only beautiful thing he had been blessed with during the twelve years of his sorry marriage. The wonder for him was always how little Kathy looked like her mother and how much she looked like her, his only true love. In Kathy he always saw only her – her beautiful eyes, her curly hair, her shy smile, her fiery temper that flashed out of those eyes. How was it possible? How could no one else see that? Aaahh…he had endless time to ponder that over.
 Southampton                                                                                                                           16/3/2019  
                                   

Tuesday 26 May 2015

Memoirs of an Auxilian Hosteller

The summer of 1997 was at its peak the day I first entered Auxilium College, Katpadi (so that’s what the ACK, stamped on the back of all the chairs in the auditorium, stood for!) What was it about the place that made me decide to study there?? Was it the fact that I was shunning city life after having had my heart broken? Was it that I wanted to escape into anonymity after an academic debacle shook me to the core and shattered all my confidence? Or was it that I wanted to show off to my younger sister, who was now staying away from home in a hostel (all grown up) … hah! what you can do I can also do … see?
            I missed my gang of friends terribly and thought that this beautiful college, nestled among hills and tucked away in the middle of nowhere, was just the place for me to mourn all that I had lost in life. Since I didn’t know the language I wouldn’t have to make any conversation with anyone. Since I was so far away from home I wouldn’t have to meet anyone I knew. All I was aware of was a sense of calm that had descended on me as I looked up at the statue of Our Lady while passing through the college gates.
How wrong I was!! Two weeks later, after having waved goodbye to my father, one of the sisters introduced me to a dusky complexioned girl with eyes that were just dancing with mischief. Sanuja was in my class, BA English, and the next few hours passed by in a whirlwind of new faces and unpronounceable names (Tirupurasundari, Vijayachamundeshwari, Shreevidhyalakshmi … I was lost at the very first syllable!!!). Sanuja went on to become my partner in crime for all time and life became one hell of a roller coaster ride.
I will never forget the first night I spent in the hostel. My very first roomies – Manjula, Margaret and Bhavani – three of the quietest girls in the entire college and me with my gunthroat voice!! In those days the hostel rooms had NO fans and a big bright supposedly zero watt bulb in every room. BIG problem!! I NEVER got sleep unless the room was dark. I tossed and turned but was soon faced with a far more worrying problem. Forget lying in the sweltering heat within a mosquito net, forget the absence of the fan and the presence of the light, forget the fact that I was a thousand miles away from home … I was hearing the sound of anklets!!! My mind raced to all the damn horror movies I had ever watched and the night was spent in saying countless Hail Marys!! The same thing happened the next night also. I finally asked Manju one evening if she too had heard these sounds. She gave me a weird look and then looked down at her feet and then at the feet of all the other girls around us…all of them were wearing anklets!!!    
            How can I forget the midnight snacks, the late night adventures, the whispered talking after the last bell, the wardens (in their grey or white habits) appearing like ghosts for a final check before they themselves retired for the night? What about racing to catch adjacent bathrooms for myself and Sanuja, so we could bathe and still keep talking to each other? Manju and the many times she came with me to the loo at night, because I was too scared to go by myself? Maggie and her akshaya patra of a snack bag?
            The very best thing about hostel life is that it functions as a microcosm of the big bad world outside and is yet, in more ways than one, a home away from home. Whether you are an only child or have a small army of siblings (like I had) we are indulged in so many ways at home that we don’t realize that we are being indulged in. But in a hostel one of the first things you learn is that you are just one among many and that “I have never before” is a phrase that is of no importance to anyone except yourself.
After my first night in the hostel I went to the warden sister with a list of complaints about my room and asked for a change. She smiled at me and said “There is no other bed right now. When I get a bed in another room I shall let you know.” My room was changed, twice, when I went to the second year and then again when I was in my final year. As was every other students’ room. In the second year I went to the warden again with a request for a change of room. My room was near the staircase and every morning the mad rush of early birds who wanted to get ready at the crack of dawn, dropping buckets and mugs and what else in their hurry, was not letting me sleep. Once more she smiled and told me “Let me check. Come back to me in a week’s time if the noise is still disturbing you.” Given time, one gets used to any and every thing – perhaps one of the most important survival skills one can ever hope to acquire, for life in a hostel and out in the world.   
            Another fun part of life in a hostel is the infinite variety of people you get to meet and know, who teach you all sorts of things, from how to be to how not to be. One of my classmates was this extremely sweet girl who would beg others to act as her alarm clock and wake her up, either to study for exams or to just be on time for college and study time and meals. People would quail in fear when requested to do so because she would abuse with the most colourful of regional abuses and slang when attempts were made to wake her up. Once up she would be mortified and so apologetic and contrite that it was a laugh just to see her apologizing for what she had yelled out in her sleep. After seeing Manju in tears more than once I took over the job. Since I didn’t follow Tamil it made no difference to me whether she was abusing me or singing ragas and shlokas!!
            College life was equally fun because we would be seeing the same faces all over the college – girls from other departments, the sisters from the convent, the support staff who lived on campus, the teachers and students who lived in the vicinity of the college and who dropped in on holidays and after college hours. As clichéd as it sounds, we were all one big family. Amidst all the grumbling about the rules the sisters made for us, the mess food which always HAS to be the worst in the world, the salt water that we had to bathe in, the blanket ban on all males between six and sixty from entering the campus, the sneaky efforts made to smuggle in cameras and radios (hey, this was eighteen years back!!), somewhere along the way I realized that my three years in ACK would soon be over. And things hadn’t quite worked out the way I had planned.
            I had made friends for life (yeah, I’m still in touch with loads of my BA friends and a reunion is in the pipeline), more than I had ever thought I would. I had picked up a smattering of Tamil, enough to understand and be understood and definitely more than enough to provide enough fun amongst my friends, even today. I was in love with Ajith and had my classmates in love with Sharukh Khan, after having regaled them with stories from his blockbusters (ostensibly while doing group study of Milton’s Paradise Lost Book 1). Twenty and thirty syllable names now rolled off my tongue with buttery ease and I had even learnt to wear a sari all by myself! I was totally able to rock the southie/madrasi look now, complete with flowers in my hair, those infernal anklets on my feet, bangles and bindis and kajal and all!    
            Today I look back at those years spent in ACK with so much of longing. Now married and responsible I dream of turning back time and going back to the Auxilium of my time. A time when I could be as crazy as I wanted to simply because I had equally crazy friends. A time when I grumbled about the Saturday morning cleaning, not knowing that, years later, I would still be following it like clockwork in my own house. A time when following the dress code meant that tee-shirts had to cover your butt and be thigh length. A time when there wasn’t easy access to the internet and mobile phones and the highlight of the month was the Tamil movie played in the auditorium.

            I could go on and on and on about my Auxilium, my college and my hostel, my teachers and the convent sisters, my batchmates, classmates and roomies, the service staff and the annas in the mess. From them all did I learn compassion, empathy, friendliness, team spirit, confidence, humanity and, more than anything else, acceptance. They all are my Auxilium. The Auxilium that was such an important part of my past and an even more important part of my present and future, for I am and will be but what I learnt from it, all those eighteen summers ago.   

Tuesday 28 April 2015

Dem questions!!

Boy! Can I talk nineteen to the dozen! Wherever I have gone I have been blessed with enough and more topics on which to have a very vocal opinion on and an equal number of friends with whom endless discussions on just about everything are the norm. Our vocal abilities have been legendary. One of my friends can sit and talk to just about anything, a door, a dead phone and even a deaf relative. We used to joke that she wouldn’t even notice if the person she was talking to died, she would just assume that he/she agreed with every word of what she was saying! Another friend went with her gang of college friends for a movie and yakked non-stop until people around them actually got up and left the movie hall in disgust! Yet another of my friends would sit and talk and talk and talk while her boyfriend would just gaze into her eyes. Oh yeah, they were very much in love because he loved to hear her talk and she loved him for letting her talk!!

I would come home from college everyday by about 3:30 in the afternoon and by 5:00 I would be on the phone with whichever of my friends was free at the same time. When my mom asked me what I had to say to someone I had last seen barely two hours ago all I could do was roll my eyes….duh!! Did she really think I would wait for over twelve hours to tell her about the cute guy I saw on the bus back home??? Even today, decades later, after something earth shattering has happened in my world, my husband takes one look at the constipated look at my face and asks me “What happened? No one is free to chat now?” That happens when my bestie is busy nursing her father and father-in-law, my sister with her kids’ exams, my mom with her latest grandchild and my neighbor with visiting relatives, all at the very same time.

And the questions…perhaps it’s my OCD at its outspoken best, but I cannot get myself to do anything unless I’m convinced about the reason for it. There was this guy I knew at my first job, who used to go red in the face whenever I asked him or anyone near him a question beginning with “Why”. One day, totally exasperated, he asked me, “Is it because your name starts with ‘Y’ that you feel bound to begin every question and answer with ‘Why’?” God bless his sweet heart!!

My husband, in the days when he knew me before marriage, used to hate two things about me, so he and his friends tell me: one, that I would always have my nose stuck in a book, and two, when my nose was out of a book I was either eating or talking!! He once asked me, extremely hopefully, “When you are an old hag and your teeth all fall out, will you keep shut at least then??” “No way,” I shot back, “I’ll find something to make some noise with!!” When our son was born everyone expected him to start talking early because he had a jabbermouth like me for a mother. He said his first word at eight months – “ma” – and then never said anything for the next couple of months. By one and a half he would use only a few monosyllables that I understood: “aaa” was ‘car’, “baa” was ‘bus’ and “boo” was both ‘book’ and ‘balloon’. That was the extent of his vocabulary and, time and again, I would be accosted by well-meaning people who wondered whether my son had a hearing or speech disability. I would shut them all up with the words, “He’s my son. Once he starts talking he’s not gonna shut up. Wait and see.”

All too soon I realized the true meaning of a word that was much bandied about in the course of the many years I spent doing my graduation, post-graduation and doctoral studies in English literature – ‘irony’. My son’s vocabulary soon progressed to bi- and polysyllables. By three he was talking nineteen to the dozen and by three and a half the much dreaded questions began. Every sentence that today comes out of my four year old’s mouth is a question, all of them beginning with “Amma, why dem are …?”, “Amma, where dem are …?” and “Amma, what dem are …?”


Today I understand the agony of being bombarded with countless whys and wheres and whats, at the most awkward of places and in the highest possible volume a child can attain. This past Sunday, while at mass, my son was busy examining closely a statue of the crucified Christ. The questions ranged from the innocent “Where are the nails?” and “Why is Jesus black” (the entire statue is painted black, heaven knows why) to the embarrassing “Why is Jesus’s underwear chewed up?” (on noticing Jesus’s loincloth). And now I remember reading a definition of ‘puberty’ in Readers’ Digest decades ago: “Puberty is that stage when the kids stop asking questions and start questioning the answers”. What am I gonna do then, with dem questions and answers??   

Saturday 25 April 2015

The Man in the Moon!

Today, while reading the story of ‘Why do dogs howl at the moon?’ to my four year old son, I found my eyes welling up with tears. It is actually one of the better stories I’ve read, of the many that are available on the same topic. The dog and the rabbit were the best of friends even though they were poles apart (one loved carrots and the other meat). One day a spaceship appears and a moon man comes out of it, aims his stun gun at the dog and zaps him. The rabbit, however, at the very last minute jumps in the way, takes the blow and protects his friend the dog. The dog is knocked unconscious and when he comes to he finds his friend the rabbit missing. He runs helter-skelter searching for his friend but none of the animals seem to know where his friend is. And that’s why, on full moon nights, when he sees the shadow of his friend on the moon the dog howls out and calls to his friend, whom he has sorely missed. The best part of the story was the author asking us to not throw stones at dogs when they howl on a full moon night, for all they are doing is calling out to their long-lost friend, the rabbit.    

Why did this story bring tears to my eyes? There is, for many people, nothing more romantic than a moon-lit night or a walk by the beach on a full moon night. The moon, in all its many shapes (full, half, crescent, sliver), has always held an undeniable attraction for me. Thinking back to my childhood I wonder whether it was all those Enid Blytons that I read, where wonderful things began to happen as soon as the moon slipped out of the blanket of the sky? Or was it the many Georgette Heyers that I soon progressed to, where lissome lasses fell in love with roguish rakes by the light of the full moon?? And of course, how can I ever forget all the horror flicks my siblings watched by the dozen, where the full moon and a few lonely scattered clouds set the stage for all sorts of werewolves (from my childhood, none were as hot as Taylor Lautner’s Jacob), vampires and ghoulish fiends.

When I fell in love for the first time I would steal glances at the moon in the sky and wonder what he was doing. Was he also looking at the moon and thinking of me? Perhaps it is then that I conceived of the moon as this big bright mirror in the sky that would reflect my love and longing to him, when he looked up at the sky, at perhaps that very moment. For years after, moon or no moon, I would think of him as I nursed a broken heart and cried myself to sleep.


What is it about the moon that is so achingly beautiful, so romantic, so tragic and yet, so magical? Perhaps it is the fact that, from time immemorial, lovers have met and loved and parted by the light of the moon. Even today, I find tears in my eyes every time I remember the story that Wolverine narrates in one of the many X-Men movies, the story of the Wolverine and the Trickster. Now who in their right minds wouldn't want to go console someone as delicious as Hugh Jackman?

As they say, the perfect relationship/man is not real and a real relationship/man is not perfect. Perhaps that's why the moon, for me, is all that is perfect, all that is magical, all that is enthralling and all that is too good to be true. Like his love. Like his promises. Like his kisses. Like his smiles. All perfect and none of them real. My man in the moon!!  

Thursday 9 April 2015

Reality (poem)

REALITY

Our eyes met
I was drowning
deep into their green depths.
He smiled
a sparkling smile
and lit up my life.
I broke the spell and looked away but yet was haunted by that look.

He said my name
slowly, pronouncing it
as no-one had ever done before.
I looked up
at his mouth, his eyes
and was spell-bound again.
This time I did not,
could not look away
but remained under its sway.

Untill he reached for my hand and pulled me to safety.                         - Yasmin (1994) 

Morning whispers (poem)

This is a poem which won the first prize in my college's poetry writing competition, decades ago, when I was in the final year of my BA. I thought it was crap, at that time, and guess what?? I still do. Why I'm blogging it?? Just to sorta have my writing down on record....maybe when I'm a famous writer one day you can get down to this and say "Hey, after crap like this if she can be famous, then why not me?"

And then again, one needs to understand the circumstances in which the poem got written. It was one of those thingys where the topic or first line is already given and this is the one topic that appealed to me. The deal clincher was that the competition was being held in an hour that I desperately wanted to bunk...don't remember which hour but my bet is on Prose. So, I sat in the room for the better part of the hour and started writing only when my HOD popped in to check on the progress of the competition. That it won the first prize is more a statement of the fact that there were less than ten people in the competition and only four from the English department!

Morning Whispers

Morning ...
A wintry wind
blowing over the white countryside
rushing through narrow city alleys
howling, biting, freezing, chilling.

Morning ...
A waft of spring
pervading the countryside waking up to spring
tiny flowers beginning to bloom amid the busy city lanes
purging, replenishing, energizing, thrilling.

Morning ...
A hot blast
drying up tender spring blossoms
torrid rays causing salty streams to trickle down heated foreheads
enervating, sweltering, sapping, scorching.

Morning ... 
An overcast sky 
rumblings from gloomy clouds frowning over shrunken rivers
glaring at the city's dust and grime
sultry, enveloping, threatening, sulking.

Morning ...
A light drizzle
the sparkling greenery of the earth
the freshly-scrubbed look of the city
refreshing, invigorating, cooling, soothing.

Morning ... 
A nip in the air
reds, browns and oranges of the woods
fallen leaves swirling around city-parks
rustling, swishing, hastening, surrounding.

Morning ...
the beginning of another brand-new day
so much to be done
so much to be seen
so much to be heard
so much to be learnt
so much to be felt
so much to be experienced
eternal, promising, full of hope.                                                            - Yasmin (22/11/99)